Accurate traffic light status detection and the appropriate response to changes in that status are crucial for autonomous driving systems (ADSs) starting from SAE Level 3 automation. The dilemma zone problem occurs during the amber phase of traffic lights, when the ADS must decide whether to stop or proceed through the intersection. This paper proposes a methodology for developing a runtime monitor that addresses the dilemma zone problem and monitors the autonomous vehicle’s behavior at traffic lights, ensuring that the ADS’s decisions align with the system’s safety requirements. This methodology yields a set of safety requirements formulated in controlled natural language, their formal specification in linear temporal logic (LTL), and the implementation of a corresponding runtime monitor. The monitor is integrated within a safety-oriented software architecture through a modular autonomous driving system pipeline, enabling real-time supervision of the ADS’s decision-making at intersections. The results show that the monitor maintained stable and fast reaction times between 40 ms and 65 ms across varying speeds (up to 13 m/s), remaining well below the 100 ms threshold required for safe autonomous operation. At speeds of 30, 50, and 70 km/h, the system ensured correct behavior with no violations of traffic light regulations. Furthermore, the monitor achieved 100% detection accuracy of the relevant traffic lights within 76 m, with high spatial precision (±0.4 m deviation). While the system performed reliably under typical conditions, it showed limitations in disambiguating adjacent, irrelevant signals at distances below 25 m, indicating opportunities for improvement in dense urban environments.